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Converts
#1
I know this may be off the topic of the forum, but I am badly in need of support here.
A mentor of mine just converted to Orthodox Judaism. He's almost taken a family of mutual acquaintance with him. I'm trying to salvage them from the wreckage he's caused. I can use all the prayer I can get at this point.

To sum up my feelings: "We're going to kill a friend."--Hunt For Red October.
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#2
Shlama Akhi Dawid,

I am glad you reached out on this forum but obviously my response can't be public. See your private messages.
Shlama w'burkate
Andrew Gabriel Roth
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#3
The think about Orthodox Judaism is it is neat and tidy, in the sense that everyone is of one accord.
In the Messianic movement there is so much disagreement, some end up giving up on the New Testament because of their deep need for a zealous community. But I've also seen it go the other way. People who need fellowship so deeply, that even though they believe in the Torah, they'll throw it away just to be accepted and have a place to belong.

Being a Believer and a Torah keeper is often not a happy place to be.
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#4
Hello Dawid, what you have mentioned is not an unusual experience.
I am not sure what you can do to change things with them.

As far as Orthdoxy being neat and tidy, and all in agreement, nothing can be
further from the truth. While we all agree on basic halachah, there are
differences in traditions, philosophies, and interpretations amongst Orthodoxy.

We are definitely not one unified body, unfortunately.


May the Almighty bless you and yours,

TOJ
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#5
TOJ,
While it is true in one sense that Orthodoxy is not neat and tidy, compare Orthodoxy to what goes on at this website. Just look at the disagreements between me and Mr. Roth. So the simple fact that you are united in the basics of halacha makes it vastly tidier than we are. You have organization, a broad base to fall back on. You have many ideas and rituals agreed upon through at least the majority of Orthodoxy. We can't even seem to agree on that.
Have you seen the movie "Cast a Giant Shadow"? There's a line where Michael Stone says "If Moses were to come down from Mount Sinai right now, the Palmach and the Haggana would send back five of the commandments just so God wouldn't get a swell head."
That's Messianics/Netzarim in a nutshell. Can't agree on anything, won't budge an inch, and are all equally convinced that "I" is the only one that has it all figured out.
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#6
Looking back at this thread, I've come to the conclusion that I watch too many movies. <!-- s:biggrin: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/biggrin.gif" alt=":biggrin:" title="Big Grin" /><!-- s:biggrin: -->
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#7
Dawid Wrote:TOJ,
While it is true in one sense that Orthodoxy is not neat and tidy, compare Orthodoxy to what goes on at this website. Just look at the disagreements between me and Mr. Roth. So the simple fact that you are united in the basics of halacha makes it vastly tidier than we are. You have organization, a broad base to fall back on. You have many ideas and rituals agreed upon through at least the majority of Orthodoxy. We can't even seem to agree on that.
Not being any kind of expert on Messianic beliefs, I can't say one way or another how organized or disorganized it is. However, I have noticed
a large spectrum of belief, from people who seem like they are straight Christian, to those who are much more leaners towards Orthodoxy.
Quote:Have you seen the movie "Cast a Giant Shadow"?
I have never seen it- it is worth renting?
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#8
Not worth renting. It's about the 1948 war, but has very little to do with facts. Hollywood seems to ignore those whenever possible. :-D
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#9
Dawid Wrote:It has very little to do with facts. Hollywood seems to ignore those whenever possible. :-D


What a surprise that is <!-- s:biggrin: --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/biggrin.gif" alt=":biggrin:" title="Big Grin" /><!-- s:biggrin: -->
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#10
Hey, it could be worse. At least it's pro-Israel.
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#11
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#12
So, nu, whatever happened to the family you were concerned about?
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#13
The Orthodox Jew Wrote:
Dawid Wrote:TOJ,
While it is true in one sense that Orthodoxy is not neat and tidy, compare Orthodoxy to what goes on at this website. Just look at the disagreements between me and Mr. Roth. So the simple fact that you are united in the basics of halacha makes it vastly tidier than we are. You have organization, a broad base to fall back on. You have many ideas and rituals agreed upon through at least the majority of Orthodoxy. We can't even seem to agree on that.
Not being any kind of expert on Messianic beliefs, I can't say one way or another how organized or disorganized it is. However, I have noticed
a large spectrum of belief, from people who seem like they are straight Christian, to those who are much more leaners towards Orthodoxy.

That's exactly my point. See when you go to Synagogue even if you disagree on lots of things, at least you all believe essentially in the same God, and that the the Torah and Halacha is binding upon all Jews.
Sure, you have reform Jews, and fake kabbalists like Madonna, but what would make it the same in my opinion is if someone went around calling himself an Orthodox Jew when he doesn't keep the Shabbat, etc.

Messianics are just that. Messy!
So it's kind of like pulling the short string.
You never have any idea exactly what a Messianic is going to act like or think.
Someone will introduce themselves as Messianic, and then you find out they're neo-gnostics who believe they have their own direct line to God.
It's quite exhausting really.

It lies in the fact that the vast majority of Messianicism isn't institutionalised.
There isn't an oral tradition, except for the Knanaya and perhaps some others.
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Most western Messianics hear one doctrine from one speaker online, keep some of his points and throw away the rest, then go to hear a local meeting where they do the same, filtering away the things they don't agree with and we all know that everyone has their own way of filtering infomation.

It's really like a dog's breakfast.

While with Orthodox Judaism or Christianity. You are told you either in or out.
You either believe like us, and then you're welcome, or there's the door.

But probably the biggest factor is whether or not there is a place of local fellowship where they feel they belong. Because if there isn't, the pressure can get too much for some. They may end up getting sick of how disjointed they feel, so they'll reason that the Messianic movement isn't valid, and that the Christians are right about the Torah being done away with, so then they can go to Church feeling comfortable and fit in, or that they're reason that Yeishua was a false Messiah and they can become a Jew with a clean conscience.

Once you want to make a step in a certain direction it is very easy to come up with reasons.

I'm saying this, not because I want to attack anyone. But rather because I've witnessed these things happen and I wish it wasn't this chaotic.
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#14
I disagree. Judaism is not the Truth. It's an interpretation of the truth which loosens and disregards vital elements of Scriptures, as is evident in the teachings of Y'shua. In Judaism there's no clear sin sacrifice, and through this, one could argue, no atonement.
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